All that matters to you is valid.
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THERAPIST · WRITER · SPEAKER · EDUCATOR
Specializing in reproductive, perinatal, parental, and maternal mental health.
Through therapy, writing, and education, I make space for pregnancy loss, grief, and the complexities of parenthood. Across my work, I emphasize intentional language, meaningful connection, and repair.
LGBTQIA2+ affirming • Neurodivergence affirming
Welcoming all genders and families of all kinds.
WORKBOOKS & TOOLKITS
FOR SINGLE MOTHERS BY CHOICE
Choosing motherhood does not mean choosing to do everything alone.
A workbook on loneliness, connection, and care for single mothers by choice, with reflections, practical tools, and space to work through what support could look like for you.
Choosing motherhood does not mean choosing to do everything alone.
How are loneliness and isolation showing up for you as a single mother by choice?
Written by a therapist who is also a single mother by choice, this workbook makes room for both truths: loving the family you chose and needing more support than you have.
Inside, you’ll find plain-language tools drawn from CBT, ACT, DBT, and parts work, worksheets with real writing space, and reflections on being the only adult at home, feeling misunderstood even in single-mother-by-choice communities, asking for help that actually helps, and setting boundaries when you depend on the person helping you.
For anyone considering single motherhood by choice, trying to conceive, pregnant, postpartum, or parenting.
About Beth
Beth P. Siller, LMFT, is a therapist, educator, writer, and speaker specializing in reproductive, perinatal, maternal, and parental mental health. The founder of All That Matters Therapy and All That Matters Learning, she brings more than a decade of early childhood education experience, clinical expertise, and lived experience as a single mother by choice to her work.
Her integrative, trauma-informed approach is LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergence-affirming and honors diverse paths to parenthood. Through therapy, trainings, writing, and original illustrations, Beth makes complex psychological concepts accessible and practical. She lives in South Florida with her son, Mayer.
A psychoeducational workbook. Not a substitute for therapy.
FOR MENTAL HEALTH CLINICIANS & OTHER PERINATAL PROVIDERS
What do you say when someone shares a thought they have been afraid to tell anyone?
A trauma-informed toolkit for responding to perinatal intrusive experiences with curiosity and care. Includes sample language, five composite cases, and fifteen practical tools to help you ask questions within your role and recognize when and where to refer.
Events & Appearances
Past Events
Quiet Connection Podcast
I’ll be joining Chelsea Myers on the Quiet Connection podcast to share my story and path to motherhood.
Air date and episode link to follow. Until then, you can check out their website for truly powerful interviews and topics being discussed.
Our Language Matters
Hosted by David Posnack JCC
Beth P. Siller, LMFT, presented to early childhood educators on the power of intentional language and how the words we use shape children’s learning, relationships, and sense of self.
In Conversation: Family Building After 40
Hosted by Yesh Tikva
Beth P. Siller, LMFT, joined fellow conversation partners for an honest discussion about the experiences, decisions, and emotional realities of building a family after 40.
Upcoming Events
Safe Enough to Say It: Understanding Postpartum Harm OCD
Created and presented by Beth P. Siller, LMFT
Hosted by Yesh Tikva
An introductory training on recognizing and responding to harm-related intrusive thoughts and compulsions. This webinar explores disclosure, assessment, and supportive responses through a trauma-focused lens.
Who it’s for: Mental health professionals and reproductive and perinatal providers, including those who support pregnant and postpartum families.
Tuesday, November 10, 2026
12:00–1:30 p.m. Eastern / 9:00–10:30 a.m. Pacific
Live virtual training | 1.5 CE hours available for eligible professionals
All That Matters Learning
Education for the conversations that deserve more than a surface-level answer.
All That Matters Learning brings together workshops, professional trainings, and practical resources grounded in clinical knowledge, lived experience, and the realities people are actually navigating.
For professionals, parents, schools, organizations, and communities looking to understand more, support better, and have the conversations that matter.
All That Matters Therapy
Specialized therapy for perinatal and maternal mental health, infertility, fertility and loss, parenting transitions, burnout, grief, trauma, relationships, and the many ways becoming or being a parent can change you.
I work with individuals and couples through pregnancy, postpartum, family building, parenthood, and the transitions that can affect identity, relationships, mental health, and the way life looks and feels.
All That Matters Therapy is LGBTQIA+ affirming, neurodivergence affirming, and inclusive of families of all kinds, including non-traditional paths to parenthood and family systems.
Virtual therapy is available in California, Florida, and Tennessee.
ABOUT BETH
I’m a single mother by choice, a former early childhood educator, and a therapist who believes in zooming out to see the full picture.
My clinical work, lived experience, and background in expressive arts shape how I listen, write, and teach. I pay attention to what gets overlooked, whose experiences are left out, and how our words can make room for greater understanding and connection.
From My Writing
Reflections on motherhood, identity, grief, relationships, and the in-between.
MOTHERHOOD
I Sometimes Feel Like Screaming
What happens when postpartum overwhelm, sleep deprivation, resentment, and the pressure to keep functioning have nowhere to go? A look at mom rage, what can live underneath it, and why admitting it matters. READ →
FAMILY BUILDING
It’s the Act, Not the Narrative
Donor conception is often discussed through the story we tell about it. I found myself thinking about something more fundamental: what actually makes an act of creating a child intimate, meaningful, or ours? READ →
GRIEF + TRANSITION
The Death, Birth, and Rebirth Sandwich
After becoming a mother, early postpartum felt strangely familiar. I eventually realized why: so much of it reminded me of sitting shiva for my father, and of the rituals humans have long created to carry us through the experiences that divide life into before and after. READ →